I decided to really put to the test that there is No "I" in Team.
I have mentioned I play on two different Monday night leagues. One of them is with a men's team that I have been playing on for about two years. I've come to really cherish the guys. They are my friends and they have fun!
The name of that team is the Sofa Kings. And they would joke with me that I was the Sofa Queen, lol. I was there when they won ACS Texas State last year and helped them win the league playoffs last season. :)
However, I decided I needed to quit the team.
Why?
To put the team first.
A few of months ago I had a breakup, and my ex is on that team. I decided a month or so after that breakup, that it was best for the team if I simply step down and make things easier on everyone else.
So I called the Captain (I felt he deserved a phone call, not a text) to explain my thoughts and difficult decision, and he said he completely understood.
While I thought this was the right thing to do, not one of those teammates said one thing to me about it. No one has reached out to me, or thanked for doing the right thing, or not even telling me it was the wrong thing. I have heard nothing.
I don't need reassurance, but I thought they were my friends, so I admit I'm a little confused I haven't heard from anyone at all.
Anyway.
So, because I still want to qualify with a mixed league where I could possibly still play Scotch Doubles in Vegas for BCA or ACS (state and nationals), I needed to join another team.
I didn't want to play on Mondays - I didn't want to have to worry about where we were playing or who we were playing, so I called our league operator and asked if I could join a Sunday team instead.
And he said yes!
I had several choices for teams. One team, I like the guys on the team, but one of the players said it wasn't a fun team anymore.
Well, I need to have fun when I play!
And I want to smile more again!!
So, I decided to ask a different team that I knew had fun guys on it. But obviously, still play strong, lol. I can't be playing with weak players, lmao.
(I'm serious!, lol)
So, I called one of the guys on that team and left a voicemail about perhaps joining their team, if they had room. He calls me back and says, "Well, we would love to have you on our team, but we have already met our white person quota."
What? OMG!
Did I pick the right team or what?? They are hysterical!
They welcomed me with open arms and on the first Sunday I played, I had a rack and run and won more games than any of the other guys, lol. ;)
Fun times AND good pool with a great group of guys! And lots of smiling! Love it. :)
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