Katniss (of the Project Hunger Games series of my blog) recently told me a disheartening story that happened during one of her recent tournaments.
She was playing a match and on another table a verbal altercation started between two players. She lamented, "I know I shouldn't have let is bother me and distract me..."
I kinda cut her off (sorry, Katniss!) and told her that while yes we can try to not let things bother us, this was a different situation where we can't help but be distracted.
You see the two players argued for quite some time and were loud. Katniss had to go to the tournament directors (TDs) (who were watching the altercation, not doing anything about it) and had to ask them if they could handle the situation because it was so disruptive to the matches going on.
I admit I have seen this a lot.
And what people don't realize is, altercations between two players distracts all the matches around them as well. It's disruptive and therefore causes other players to lose their focus, it interrupts their rhythm, and interferes with their concentration.
However, I do admit that in order to resolve the conflict means more distraction because TDs normally address the situation/players at their table which means other matches around them are still affected until it's resolved.
BTW, Katniss was able to regroup and win her match. Yay!
And this is a great reminder! Remember that there are a ton of things that can happen unexpectedly during a tournament that you cannot control. And being able to refocus is key. I have written about both of those things a lot, and although it's unfortunate Katniss had to go through that situation during her tournament, I selfishly am glad because it provides me the perfect opportunity to remind you peeps of these two important things that will help you in tournaments. :)
1. Things will happen you don't have control over and try to not let them bother you.
2. Getting distracted is normal. Refocusing is the key for all great athletes.
Tuesday, September 4, 2018
Sunday, September 2, 2018
Everything is Pool Related
I went to Lake Charles, LA last week for work. While there, I captured a good shot of the National Weather Service Doppler Radar in Lake Charles, LA:
I posted that photo on my Facebook page and there were several general comments about it. And then here comes Mike Page, "Here, let me fix that for you, Melinda." And then he posted this, LMAO:
Red circle cueball, anyone? Hysterical!
Saturday, September 1, 2018
Practicing Scotch - Project Hunger Games
I have pontificated a lot in my blog that players who play scotch doubles together do not necessarily need to practice together if they already know 8ball well.
Katniss changed my mind a bit. I love seeing different aspects of things!
What I hadn't really thought of was when two people who don't know each other at all play scotch doubles together, it is actually very beneficial to practice together ahead of time because then you get to find out about their personalities. Some people show a different side to themselves when they are competing, right? Competition can bring out the worst in someone, and if you don't know that about your partner, you will be surprised.
You see, Katniss played in a scotch doubles tournament with that guy a while back and he is the type of player who shows his emotions when he's upset - usually a small tantrum sort of thing - walking off mad, quipping about her slot selection - nothing loud or obnoxious, just a hint of upsetness.
He's like this all the time when he plays, but she hadn't seen him play a lot in tournaments and didn't know this about him.
So when they played together for the first time, his negative emotions and reactions bothered her, and therefore distracted her from playing well, because she thought she caused his tiny tantrums. I tried to explain to her after the scotch doubles tournament that he's like that all the time, and while she understood that and it made her feel a little better, there was still some doubt and she continued to take some blame thinking her mistakes on the table upset him.
As we all know, we play our best not distracted. Therefore, because he showed his upsetness, it definitely distracted her and she didn't play her best.
They decided to play in another scotch doubles event together, but this time they got together to practice a week or so before. And what did she see? She saw him act the same in their practice session and it clearly proved that it's just his personality and nothing to do with her!
So, when they played again in their next scotch doubles tournament, she felt much more at ease with him, wasn't taking things personal if he got upset, and they played much better together! I'm not saying they won the tournament or anything lol, but they played better together and felt better much better because they got to know one another a little better during the practice session. They are also becoming friends, which helps in scotch doubles, as well.
I definitely failed to see that when two people don't know each other at all, even if they know 8ball well, finding out about their personalities ahead of time can be a key element to shooting well together.
Thank you, Katniss, for the lesson!
Katniss changed my mind a bit. I love seeing different aspects of things!
What I hadn't really thought of was when two people who don't know each other at all play scotch doubles together, it is actually very beneficial to practice together ahead of time because then you get to find out about their personalities. Some people show a different side to themselves when they are competing, right? Competition can bring out the worst in someone, and if you don't know that about your partner, you will be surprised.
You see, Katniss played in a scotch doubles tournament with that guy a while back and he is the type of player who shows his emotions when he's upset - usually a small tantrum sort of thing - walking off mad, quipping about her slot selection - nothing loud or obnoxious, just a hint of upsetness.
He's like this all the time when he plays, but she hadn't seen him play a lot in tournaments and didn't know this about him.
So when they played together for the first time, his negative emotions and reactions bothered her, and therefore distracted her from playing well, because she thought she caused his tiny tantrums. I tried to explain to her after the scotch doubles tournament that he's like that all the time, and while she understood that and it made her feel a little better, there was still some doubt and she continued to take some blame thinking her mistakes on the table upset him.
As we all know, we play our best not distracted. Therefore, because he showed his upsetness, it definitely distracted her and she didn't play her best.
They decided to play in another scotch doubles event together, but this time they got together to practice a week or so before. And what did she see? She saw him act the same in their practice session and it clearly proved that it's just his personality and nothing to do with her!
So, when they played again in their next scotch doubles tournament, she felt much more at ease with him, wasn't taking things personal if he got upset, and they played much better together! I'm not saying they won the tournament or anything lol, but they played better together and felt better much better because they got to know one another a little better during the practice session. They are also becoming friends, which helps in scotch doubles, as well.
I definitely failed to see that when two people don't know each other at all, even if they know 8ball well, finding out about their personalities ahead of time can be a key element to shooting well together.
Thank you, Katniss, for the lesson!
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