I was walking through the aisles at the ACS Texas State tourney inbetween all the pool tables, as I had just come washing my hands before my 9am match.
I then saw out of the corner of my eye two friends shooting the same shot over and over.
I walked my a$$ over and interrupted, "What's going on over here?"
"I'm showing B how to shoot this shot," C said.
B shot the shot and missed it badly, AND the shape (which is what they were going for).
I said, "well, that way makes it a REALLY tough shot. If you want to get down and around the table, you should do this instead."
And I shot the shot with top left English and the cueball smoothly sailed around for shape at the bottom end of the table.
C and B both tried it and couldn't really do the shot. I told them even THAT shot is a tough shot and you just have to hit it over and over again to get used to it. I added, "eventually, you will get the hang of the shot and really enjoy it."
I apologized for interrupting them (I really did fell bad) and I skedaddled on my way to my match.
A few hours later I saw B and I apologized again. "Sorry I bothered you two, I was just trying to help."
"Oh you didn't bother us at all! We leanred from what you showed us and we actually want to spend more time on shots with you."
"Oh really? Cool. Yes, let's do that."
She then confided with me. "My significant other always want me to shoot shots over and over and over again and she wants me to practice shots I don't know yet or miss a lot and do drills. I really don't like to do that. But they insist, and then even get upset when I push back on practicing."
I told her, "well, honestly, I don't like to practice. And I don't do drills. So, I look at it as just shooting a shot til I feel comfortable with it. If you look at it as NOT practice or NOT drills, but something that is fun to do - like learning a new shot - then you will be more apt to shoot a shot over and over til you love it/learn it."
"That's a really good point," she said.
"They are just trying ti help, but if you are already dreading it, then it wont be helpful at all. Just look at it as improving, not drills or practice. Those are "dry" words and not very positive to many people. "Learning" and "excelling," are. I do "practice" shots but I don't consider a full blown practice session."
Basically I was trying to tell her that practicing (or shooting) a shot over and over is good, but not if you are dreading "practicing." Just call it something more fun! Look at it from a different point of view.
She then gave me a hug and then she skedaddled to her next match!